[H2MP] - it's easier to do it myself!


Hi Reader

"It's just quicker if I do it myself." [And why this is stopping you from progressing your career]

I regularly hear this exact phrase when coaching people on partnership track in the professions.

And every single time I hear it, I ask the same question:

"Is it though?"

Because here's what's actually happening. You're not saving time by doing it yourself.

You're just avoiding three very specific fears.

1️⃣ they won't get it done in time, and you'll end up redoing it yourself at midnight the night before the deadline.

(And possibly get the wrath of your significant other half because you’ve left them to deal with the kids on their own AGAIN)

2️⃣ they'll blow the budget, you'll have to write it off, and then explain to the partner why the margin on this matter is rubbish.

3️⃣ the work will come back wrong, you'll have to fix it anyway, and you've wasted everyone's time.

So you tell yourself it's quicker to just do it yourself.

And you stay trapped in the weeds whilst watching your peers (apparently) effortless find the time to do all the other stuff that helps progress your career to partner.

But here's the thing about those three fears. They're all completely valid. And they're all completely solvable.

You just need to know how to set up the delegation properly in the first place.

Have a listen to this short How to Make Partner podcast episode. I break down each of these three fears using examples from that coaching call (it's only 7 mins).

I walk through exactly how to use "back pocket time" to eliminate deadline anxiety, the assertive language that ensures budget expectations are met, and why you must insist on check-ins to prevent work coming back wrong.

Listen here:

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And if you think you'd benefit from learning my complete system for delegation, my course "How to Delegate Like a Pro" is one of the courses Progress to Partner Academy

How to Delegate Like a Pro is a short self-paced course that gives you the frameworks and scripts you need to go from stressed do-er to confident delegator.

Work through the course exercises, putting them into practice and see how much more time you have available to do the things that will move your career forward and get you noticed.

The course is available to purchase as a standalone course here and you can use code DEL50 to get 50% off the course this weekend!

As ever, if you have any questions about how we can help you to start confidently delegating just reply to this email.

speak soon!

Heather

PS - Find out more about Progress to Partner Academy here

you can use code DEL50 to get 50% off the How to Delegate Like a Pro course this weekend!

Heather Townsend

Author (Poised for Partnership, the Financial Times Guide to Business Networking) Co-author How to Make Partner (and Still Have A Life)

The leading global expert in what it takes to move from senior fee earner to partner, and when you get there, stay there. Founder of Progress to Partner Academy

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